Monday, January 16, 2006

From the diary of true friends!

SHE wrote
sometimes i wish i understood people better
i keep trying, keep trying
but people seem to stump me every time
proving all my efforts were in vain

then should i stop?
should i accept that people were never meant to be understood?
should i go on, accepting whatever they say or do?
and not break my head with the question WHY?

or should i think about it
ponder where i went wrong
and make an effort, however small
to change myself, not for them, but to understand them better

but there doesn't seem to be an end
it seems like every time i make that effort
things change in a different direction
and i'm back where i started

why? why? why?
i hate that question
hate it even more now
as it snickers at me from above

maybe i should think just for myself
maybe i should be a little selfish
maybe then i'd feel a little less pain
a little less hurt

then again.. maybe i won't

HE wrote
People always try to understand others
yet, none becomes master.
Every once in a while they are put in a situation
that turns up like a burnt bread in a toaster.
Lessons are learnt, some right, some wrong.
Some just walk off the situation only to get into a new one.
Many become stone hearted. They keep themselves away further.
These are people who apply same pattern in every situation.
Few understand that each situation is unique.
Each one is an experience, they consider.
Is that Wine gets better with Age? they ask
Life just goes on - is their matured talk.
SHE wrote
each experience is different
each relationship so unique
yet when it says "THE END"
why do u feel the same?

life isn't a set of math equations
i dont think u have easy formulas
it's like learning to cook
u learn the basics, then do it ur own way

there are twists and turns on this road
and what seems like a road block today
will be long gone tomorrow

i know that life will go on
there's too much to see and do
than mull over transient relationships
and wonder what went wrong

but i just cant seem to bring myself up
to accept that i am gonna be hurt time and again
and there's nothing i can do to help it

HE wrote
The End lies with in our eyes
which believes in the lies.
Sets the mind into motion to expect
from others how you would like them to be.
At every intersection in the path of life
a decision to be made - to stay put or let go
or so, people understand.
They cease to believe that you can diverge and yet be together.
Many call it "The End".
Its when they are hurt.
Wise , however, take their time to
make their decision when they are rational.
Fianlly they rationalise, it is not about staying put
but appreciate the other in their own way.
Enjoy the ride as long as it is and at intersections,
they meet and share their experiences in the path they travelled.
SHE wrote
i guess when the hurt heals
i will do that
gracefully accept that the relationship has changed
and it's taking a different course

i will go on, and so will everyone else
to them, nothing has changed
to me, so much has changed

yet another way life tells me
that it's not a straight road
but a big circle
and all who go one way, will some day
come back to where they started
HE wrote
;-)

SHE wrote

;-)
HE wrote
;-))
SHE wrote
stop grinning u dumbo..

2 comments:

hari said...

Hey Phantom,

Why did you change that electrically romantic template you had and why black.

Everybody seems to be on "He" and "She" mode. Is it the season of romance.

Anonymous said...

nice to see this up :-)