Monday, May 22, 2006

Blinded by love !

I do not understand why ppl in love lose their own self and rationale thinking. Everything is governed by their craving for the other person, their thoughts, their actions, their understanding, everything. They cant even see the simple truth or understand anything that friends and family tell them. Why should love necessitate a complete change in yourself...and how long will such a love even last? Until you are tired of being someone that you are not?

8 comments:

Keshi said...

**Everything is governed by their craving for the other person, their thoughts, their actions, their understanding, everything.

I guess it's the way we r made...love sends us to a complete blind state and it makes us what we r usually not...simply cos we love someone other than ourselves :) I think it's a wonderful experience no matter what!

Keshi.

che sara sara said...

hey i dun think every body in love loses their own self and rationale thinking....but where is love...i dun see any love around...
i just see lust...but no love

hari said...

Well said bala, and one reason why such love and subsequent marriage wherever it happens, gets into problem is the frustration of having to portray a character and image different to our self.

hari said...

Hey, I very much agree with sophi's observation of terming such love as more of lust.

hari said...

By the way bala, may I know why you have stopped visiting any other blog other than DVs. Now that DV has also stopped blogging I do not see your comments anywhere.

Are we so bad at blogging.

wookie said...

Belated brithday wishes!

Madhu said...

Agree with u in parts. Yes there r few ppl who put a front just so the person they like will appreciate it. Not everyone is like that. Its a phase, more like infactuation, where what u believe is true is so very important that that person doesnt want to look beyond.

One thing I learnt the bitter way in life, never interfere in someone else's love life unless the person approaches u for help, EVEN IF ITS UR BEST FRIEND.

BTW Belated Birthday Wishes.

Enchanted Mind said...

@Keshi,
hmm....
@sophie
I dont think so....
@Hari,
I'm burning out of blogging , hari.
@Wookie
Howdy..Thanks a lot.
@Madhu
True...and yes, NEVER EVER get involved. I have got crap thrown on my face too.